I hate it when people are late or flake. We all do it every once and awhile but after the age of 25 I think people should commit or don’t. Anyway I read my friend Vi’s blog and from her blog I found Jewlia Goulia’s blog–a woman who has really done amazing things is the past year. She and Vi are both inspirational!
I have dumped boyfriends and friends because of how often they back out of commitments. I understand that sometimes shit happens but if it happens over and over–if you say yes but I can depend on you to be a no-show–then what’s the point of the relationship? I am passive agressive- its in my genes, but at some point you have to realize and be up front about what you want, or can, do.
Julia wrote a blog that best describes how I feel about flakes–you can read it here.